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	<description>Life &#38; Lessons from before, during, and after my time in the service industry</description>
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		<title>Comment on Something Crossing My Mind Today by Victoria @ My Daily Cuppa</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Victoria @ My Daily Cuppa]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 18:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just discovered your blog via a link from elsewhere regarding online dating.  Your little experiment was very enlightening.

I have only just recently signed up to OKStupid and I am comparing my experience to that of my (not black) friend.  She has been quite fortunately and has now been on several dates.  I am currently fending off men who are looking for a black mama to dominate them!  WTF???

I am responding to this particularly post, because I remember when I had a long shopping list of requirements for the man of my dreams.

That list now consists of three things:
1) That he is breathing
2) That he can string a sentence together vocally and on paper (without text speak)
3)That he is breathing.

Is there hope??]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just discovered your blog via a link from elsewhere regarding online dating.  Your little experiment was very enlightening.</p>
<p>I have only just recently signed up to OKStupid and I am comparing my experience to that of my (not black) friend.  She has been quite fortunately and has now been on several dates.  I am currently fending off men who are looking for a black mama to dominate them!  WTF???</p>
<p>I am responding to this particularly post, because I remember when I had a long shopping list of requirements for the man of my dreams.</p>
<p>That list now consists of three things:<br />
1) That he is breathing<br />
2) That he can string a sentence together vocally and on paper (without text speak)<br />
3)That he is breathing.</p>
<p>Is there hope??</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Fall Meme &#8211; My Answers by fashion</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2009/09/16/the-fall-meme-my-answers/#comment-8881</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[fashion]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 04:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It抯 exhausting to search out knowledgeable people on this topic, however you sound like you understand what you抮e speaking about! Thanks]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It抯 exhausting to search out knowledgeable people on this topic, however you sound like you understand what you抮e speaking about! Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on R.I.P. Mr. Jackson by shops</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2009/06/26/r-i-p-mr-jackson/#comment-8879</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[shops]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 03:54:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can I just say what a reduction to seek out somebody who really is aware of what theyre talking about on the internet. You positively know tips on how to convey a problem to mild and make it important. Extra people must learn this and perceive this side of the story. I cant consider youre not more fashionable since you positively have the gift.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I just say what a reduction to seek out somebody who really is aware of what theyre talking about on the internet. You positively know tips on how to convey a problem to mild and make it important. Extra people must learn this and perceive this side of the story. I cant consider youre not more fashionable since you positively have the gift.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Would We Get Along Quiz by shops</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[shops]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 03:15:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It抯 laborious to search out knowledgeable folks on this topic, but you sound like you recognize what you抮e talking about! Thanks]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It抯 laborious to search out knowledgeable folks on this topic, but you sound like you recognize what you抮e talking about! Thanks</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mini Burgers are to Burgers as this Post is to Reviews by www.tableausoftware.com</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/11/18/mini-burgers-are-to-burgers-as-this-post-is-to-reviews/#comment-8860</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[www.tableausoftware.com]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 03:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey there would you mind letting me know which hosting 
company you&#039;re working with? I&#039;ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different internet browsers 
and I must say this blog loads a lot faster then most. Can you recommend 
a good hosting provider at a fair price? Thanks, I appreciate it!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there would you mind letting me know which hosting<br />
company you&#8217;re working with? I&#8217;ve loaded your blog in 3 completely different internet browsers<br />
and I must say this blog loads a lot faster then most. Can you recommend<br />
a good hosting provider at a fair price? Thanks, I appreciate it!</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Poem in Search of a Muse by A Muse in Search of a Poet</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2013/05/02/a-poem-in-search-of-a-muse/#comment-8830</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[A Muse in Search of a Poet]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 May 2013 15:32:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[His poems are reductions of desire

Long histories distilled in casks of longing 

The envy of angels, the demons of hope]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His poems are reductions of desire</p>
<p>Long histories distilled in casks of longing </p>
<p>The envy of angels, the demons of hope</p>
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		<title>Comment on Something Crossing My Mind Today by L A Cochran</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2013/05/01/something-crossing-my-mind-today/#comment-8819</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[L A Cochran]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 May 2013 17:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Has teeth&quot;?

Glad to see you posting again.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Has teeth&#8221;?</p>
<p>Glad to see you posting again.</p>
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		<title>Comment on You Cannot Be Serious by ONE MORE REQUEST SANTA &#8230;.. &#124; 3rdnlong</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2009/12/11/you-cannot-be-serious/#comment-8669</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ONE MORE REQUEST SANTA &#8230;.. &#124; 3rdnlong]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2012 11:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] I begin by explaining my belief in you – it has never wavered. Sure, there was that one time in fourth grade when I may have pretended to be a non-believer, but that was just a front. I only let people conclude such heinous things because snotty-nosed Charlie Clark, who I am certain received lumps of coal that year and many that followed, was leading a chorus in which he and his evil cronies accused all believers of being “big fat little sissy babies.” Setting aside his horrific and illogical sentence structure, I assure you, Santa, that I only denied you once and only because even then I deemed arguing with the ill-equipped to be a fool’s errand. [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I begin by explaining my belief in you – it has never wavered. Sure, there was that one time in fourth grade when I may have pretended to be a non-believer, but that was just a front. I only let people conclude such heinous things because snotty-nosed Charlie Clark, who I am certain received lumps of coal that year and many that followed, was leading a chorus in which he and his evil cronies accused all believers of being “big fat little sissy babies.” Setting aside his horrific and illogical sentence structure, I assure you, Santa, that I only denied you once and only because even then I deemed arguing with the ill-equipped to be a fool’s errand. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on You Cannot Be Serious by DEAREST SANTA &#8230;.. &#124; 3rdnlong</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2009/12/11/you-cannot-be-serious/#comment-8668</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[DEAREST SANTA &#8230;.. &#124; 3rdnlong]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Dec 2012 13:17:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] I begin by explaining my belief in you – it has never wavered. Sure, there was that one time in fourth grade when I may have pretended to be a non-believer, but that was just a front. I only let people conclude such heinous things because snotty-nosed Charlie Clark, who I am certain received lumps of coal that year and many that followed, was leading a chorus in which he and his evil cronies accused all believers of being “big fat little sissy babies.” Setting aside his horrific and illogical sentence structure, I assure you, Santa, that I only denied you once and only because even then I deemed arguing with the ill-equipped to be a fool’s errand. [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I begin by explaining my belief in you – it has never wavered. Sure, there was that one time in fourth grade when I may have pretended to be a non-believer, but that was just a front. I only let people conclude such heinous things because snotty-nosed Charlie Clark, who I am certain received lumps of coal that year and many that followed, was leading a chorus in which he and his evil cronies accused all believers of being “big fat little sissy babies.” Setting aside his horrific and illogical sentence structure, I assure you, Santa, that I only denied you once and only because even then I deemed arguing with the ill-equipped to be a fool’s errand. [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Few Vignettes / Recent Thoughts by the girl who can't sleep</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[the girl who can't sleep]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2012 09:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[and yes, i think it matters. thinking it doesn&#039;t just hits the reset button til you find yourself in the same place again.

maybe if we all confessed our hopes and dubious reasons, it would be easier to see a better way next time and we wouldn&#039;t have to say so many goodbyes.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>and yes, i think it matters. thinking it doesn&#8217;t just hits the reset button til you find yourself in the same place again.</p>
<p>maybe if we all confessed our hopes and dubious reasons, it would be easier to see a better way next time and we wouldn&#8217;t have to say so many goodbyes.</p>
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