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	<description>Life &#38; Lessons from before, during, and after my time in the service industry</description>
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		<title>By: littlemsblogger</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/10/02/if-you-can%e2%80%99t-write%e2%80%a6/#comment-614</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[littlemsblogger]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 20:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OMG....could not stop laughing with the dancing advice.  It is so true.  A man that can dance is so very sexy.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG&#8230;.could not stop laughing with the dancing advice.  It is so true.  A man that can dance is so very sexy.</p>
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		<title>By: Nothing Fancy</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/10/02/if-you-can%e2%80%99t-write%e2%80%a6/#comment-608</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nothing Fancy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 12:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Amen on the shopping.  And if you cannot decide between 2 - buy them both!

I&#039;m having a serious case of writer&#039;s block...not sure anyone would want my advice though.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen on the shopping.  And if you cannot decide between 2 &#8211; buy them both!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m having a serious case of writer&#8217;s block&#8230;not sure anyone would want my advice though.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kristin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 22:22:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have mental images of dating flowcharts, most of the decision points leading to &quot;no.&quot; Almost makes me want to build one.

I&#039;ve been working too much.

Also thinking about buying drinks. When I buy them for guys, it doesn&#039;t mean more than a hope to continue a conversation for the first sip or two. Maybe a whole beer. Maybe not.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have mental images of dating flowcharts, most of the decision points leading to &#8220;no.&#8221; Almost makes me want to build one.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been working too much.</p>
<p>Also thinking about buying drinks. When I buy them for guys, it doesn&#8217;t mean more than a hope to continue a conversation for the first sip or two. Maybe a whole beer. Maybe not.</p>
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		<title>By: kjohnsonesq</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kjohnsonesq]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:18:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#039;s that pesky analogy again...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s that pesky analogy again&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: suicide_blond</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/10/02/if-you-can%e2%80%99t-write%e2%80%a6/#comment-604</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[suicide_blond]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 19:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[the blond reallllly appreciates it...if you hand her a vodka tonic...when you say hello...
xoxo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the blond reallllly appreciates it&#8230;if you hand her a vodka tonic&#8230;when you say hello&#8230;<br />
xoxo</p>
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		<title>By: Angela</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/10/02/if-you-can%e2%80%99t-write%e2%80%a6/#comment-603</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 18:45:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[huh... interesting.  i may be unique.  i have developed friendships with people i have dated.  many times.  just because they aren&#039;t someone to be the only one i&#039;m with for the rest of my life....  doesn&#039;t mean i don&#039;t like them.  doesn&#039;t mean the attraction can&#039;t be fun.  doesn&#039;t mean future experiences aren&#039;t something to look forward to.  

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>huh&#8230; interesting.  i may be unique.  i have developed friendships with people i have dated.  many times.  just because they aren&#8217;t someone to be the only one i&#8217;m with for the rest of my life&#8230;.  doesn&#8217;t mean i don&#8217;t like them.  doesn&#8217;t mean the attraction can&#8217;t be fun.  doesn&#8217;t mean future experiences aren&#8217;t something to look forward to.</p>
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		<title>By: Brett</title>
		<link>http://restaurantrefugee.com/2008/10/02/if-you-can%e2%80%99t-write%e2%80%a6/#comment-602</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Brett]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 17:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[the dating- so true. it&#039;s either there or it&#039;s not. the second you realize something&#039;s missing, cut it short. you can have more fun with your friends or on your own.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the dating- so true. it&#8217;s either there or it&#8217;s not. the second you realize something&#8217;s missing, cut it short. you can have more fun with your friends or on your own.</p>
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		<title>By: Angela</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Angela]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 17:19:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[not sure i&#039;m with you on the dating advice.  i&#039;m more of the &quot;enjoy it for what it is&quot; kind of person.  dating is fun, if done well.  not always part of a quest.

unless i didn&#039;t understand your blurb on dating.... which, honestly, i&#039;m not sure if i did.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>not sure i&#8217;m with you on the dating advice.  i&#8217;m more of the &#8220;enjoy it for what it is&#8221; kind of person.  dating is fun, if done well.  not always part of a quest.</p>
<p>unless i didn&#8217;t understand your blurb on dating&#8230;. which, honestly, i&#8217;m not sure if i did.</p>
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		<title>By: brookem</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[brookem]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 17:13:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[amen to the waitstaff one.  and most all of them, especially the buying a woman a drink topic.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>amen to the waitstaff one.  and most all of them, especially the buying a woman a drink topic.</p>
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